Everyone aspires (or should aspire) to be a leader.
But if you’re not quite a leader yet, having a real leader at your side is super useful… Except when it isn’t.
Sometimes a leader is the person that really gives you the will to go ahead, fight, stand up, continue, relentlessly and gladly.
And sometimes that leader is so inspiring that his/her shadow is too long and too large, and it dwarfs anyone else’s intention to step up to leadership. That’s when there is a problem.
Leadership is a precious flower that needs to be nurtured inside each and everyone of us. Of all people, the special care and attention that is given to that flower has to come from the top, from the leaders, and all the more so from the charismatic leaders we cherish.
It is great to have such a charismatic leader that gets (nearly) everything right and is full of energy and good ideas, and is so capable and is so productive and is so protective, but this kind of messiahs is double-edged if they don’t emulate the same kind of energy among the people they are leading to fly from their own wings.
I’m not suggesting here that it’s the leader’s fault per se. Just that everyone should remember there is that little flower inside us that needs to be cared for. And give water to that thought to let the flower flourish.
Look up to the leader, emulate the leader, look below and spread the light, not the shadow.
Our age needs every aspiring leader around. So go plant your leadership flowers about!
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